Popular Ile Ijo singer May D whose real name is Mayokun Awodumila allegedly beats up his baby mama Debola.
Debola
who is the mother of May D's 2-year-old son Olamipoju sent Linda Ikeji a
tell-all email about the domestic violence she suffered by the hand of
May D.
Read it here:
"My
name is Debola I’m sure you know who I am, you put me on ur blog about
3yrs ago, for tattooing a Nigerian artist name on my body, I’m MayD’s
baby Mama… I haven’t come here to rant or make noise, but to say some
important things that I feel people should know. I will try to make my
story as short as possible.
I was with
MayD for 8years, which implies we were together from the get-go, before
his career began and when nobody knew him obviously. For many years I
stayed with him, obviously as his girlfriend, I supported him,
financially, physically and emotionally. Back then when I was in Babcock
we passed through loads of hurdles together being that he was
struggling and incapable of providing for himself and I was obliged to
supporting him financially. Even when it was extreme, like giving him a
semester’s tuition to pay for studio sessions while I stupidly stayed at
home, the things we do for love right?I practically paused my life for
him, for us at a point.
The sad part about this whole thing is that I
never got tired I did everything that was within my reach. He stopped to
cater for his kid a while ago, which I took responsibilities for and
started to do diligently..
Now, like most
relationships we had major problems which included the frequent
cheating and escapades with girls which I obviously endured as I was
consumed by the “main chick” title. Not that I was even getting any good
thing in return, he never for one day acknowledge me, or made me feel
like we were in a relationship together. I had no simple freedom to do
whatsoever on my own, be it business, friendship etc.
The
thing I couldn’t cope with was the fact that he beat me up at every
slightest opportunity he had, he beats me up like a man, he beat me up
so badly infront of our little boy all the time. He assaulted me
regularly, I suffered domestic violence in silence, and this last time
he beat me up so badly and I passed out.. I saw my life flash right
infront of me. I witnessed been close to death, I prayed to survive each
time he pounced on me, damaging several properties nd breaking diff
stuff on my head.
This had to be my last
experience, as I thought to myself, who will take care of my child for
me if I die in his hands? Who will he call mother? Who will stand by
him? So I left the relationship hurriedly without thinking of how much
time, energy, resources that must have been wasted….
PS( I av my tattoo removed already for those of you that want to comment bullshit)……"
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